Who's Right?

And there I was - caught up in the question of truth.

Who’s right? Who’s wrong? What actually happened?

But then it hit me.

Maybe none of that matters.

Because when something touches you - with joy, sadness, frustration, or wonder - what you crave isn’t correction.

It’s connection.

You don’t want someone to prove you wrong.

You want them to pause.

To look at you.

To say: I see you. I hear you. I get it.

Facts live in the mind.

But feelings live in the heart.

And the heart doesn’t need facts - it needs acknowledgment.

The moment we stop fighting over versions of the truth and start honouring how someone feels, something powerful happens.

Walls drop.

Tension eases.

Understanding grows.

What do you think - could we soften more conflicts and build deeper connections if we focused less on who’s right, and more on how people feel?